These days, it seems young people see the institution of marriage as temporary, and the term “starter marriage” is well understood. Youth Radio’s Jazmine Livingston explains why she thinks the long term commitment of yesteryear is more her style.
As I see it, marriage is not something to be taken lightly. Afterall, it’s permanent.
I’m Jazmine Livingston with a commentary from Youth Radio.
I still remember my mother and father walking through our house, dividing up every single item we had, forgetting their sacred vows as they argued over material possessions.
I couldn’t help but wonder if things that could easily be re-purchased were really that important. I mean, they loved each other at some point so much that they decided to get married. It was at this point that I promised myself I would never allow anything to come before love.
I realize that most people these days see marriage as a provisional stage in life that may or may not work out. Couples are lucky to reach their wooden anniversary. I prefer the traditional approach, when people committed forever. I mean, the divorce card shouldn’t be played just because your hand looks grim at the moment. When I step up to the altar, I plan to say “I do” forever.
